Sensual Surroundings
Have you ever noticed how great you feel after enjoying time in your favourite place or with your favourite people?
Our surroundings have a great impact on us and how we feel. We are not separate from our environment. You have surely heard it before. Many teachers suggest us to be careful with what and whom you surround yourself with.
And you might have found yourself in situations and environments that are not supportive of your sexual expression. There are places where it is simply not easy to feel sensual and sexy. And you have probably also been in spaces with are filled with sensual and erotic energy that make it much easier for you to open yourself to your inner Goddess of love.
If you want to bring more pleasure and sensuality into your sex life there are a few things that you might want to consider asking yourself.
What could you take out of your environment that is detracting from your ability to enjoy pleasure, feel sensual and celebrate your sexual self?
If you are trying to enhance your sex life, but your bedroom is so loaded with clutter that it takes you an hour to clean up - that this is not supportive for a steamy hot sex life. Get rid of the clutter and turn your bedroom into a boudoir! Transform it into an inviting space for you and your beloved where you can enjoy each other.
What could you add or change in your home to create a more sensual and erotic space?
Create a beautiful sacred space which is dedicated to your lovemaking. Maybe you want to set up a shrine. Also remember that lighting is important. Candles give a beautiful soft glow and create a warm and mystical atmosphere.
Decorate your sacred space with love. Decorate it with erotic paintings or other art objects that you like and that inspire you. Why not indulge in buying a new set of extravagantly luscious bed sheets?
Include not only the sense of sight but the sense of smell in your creation of your sacred space. Use incenses, aromatic oil or flowers in your room to create the love nest for your and your beloved.
What can you do to more consistently be in environments where you are surrounded by people who are sex positive?
If you want to connect with like-minded people, why not sign up with a local meet-up group? Or maybe you want to consider taking the next step in learning the tantric arts of love and visit a Tantra taster evening?
And for great music to get you into the mood I recommend "Tantra" by Anugama:
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"The teachings of Tantra suggest that everything on earth isinfused with spirit, and God is in the details. Anugama certainly plays music like it's a sacred act. In addition to creating blissful sounds with flute and keyboards, he also employs a variety of audio techniques to evoke heaven on earth.
His "Brainwave Sync" technology uses a frequency that oscillates from the left speaker to the right speaker, slowingbrainwave activity. Computer-generated overtones are said to "nourish the brain". Sounds from nature, human heartbeats,and vocal chants produce a nurturing and calming effect. "Planet Sound Induction" replicates the frequency generated bythe earth's rotation, thus putting the listener in synch with the planet and cosmos."
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