Sensual Pleasures
Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus
Dr. John Gray, author of the best-seller "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus" hit the point with the title of his book. It seems we women are coming from a different planet than you guys. Men and women are different. Men are in their nature yang and women are in their nature yin. In the Tao, men's sexuality is compared to Fire and women's sexuality is compared to Water. Sexologists have also discovered (not too long ago) that the sexual response cycle of men and women is different.
Let's look at a metaphor. When you want to boil water, it takes quite some time for the water to heat up and come to the boil. But once the water is boiling, it can keep going for a long time.
What this means is that most women need time to get into a sensual and sexual mood. We don't just all run around with wet panties ready for action at a moment's notice! Most of us women need foreplay, connection and the right mood to bring our sexual energy to rise. And once our sexual energy has woken up, we can keep going for a long time!
So why not surprise your beloved with an evening of sensual delight?
Take your time to awaken all of her senses - and yours. Engage all of the five senses when you are with your beloved. When we awaken and open all our senses, we are having a much richer experience of the world. Everything wakes up!
Sight
Women love to be surrounded by beauty. Set up a beautiful sensual space for your lovemaking that is honouring your beloved as the Goddess that she is!
Scent
Use incenses, aromatic oil or flowers in your room but make sure you know that your beloved likes the scent that you have chosen :) And also know that you give off your own scent that your are not aware of but that your beloved responds to.
Sound
Sounds, lyrics and music all have an effect on our mood. Ensure the music you play is sensual music that evokes moods of lovemaking. Play soft and sensual music and whisper sweet words into the ear of your beloved.
Touch
Give a sensual massage to your beloved. Or maybe you want to use soft materials to caress the body of your beloved. Play with different materials such as silk, feathers or velvet.
Taste
Have some delicious natural sweets, like fruits (try grapes or mango) that you can slowly feed your beloved.
And last but not least, remember not only to prepare the space but yourself too.
And for great music to get you into the mood I recommend "Tantra" by Anugama:
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"The teachings of Tantra suggest that everything on earth is infused with spirit, and God is in the details. Anugama certainly plays music like it's a sacred act. In addition to creating blissful sounds with flute and keyboards, he also employs a variety of audio techniques to evoke heaven on earth.
His "Brainwave Sync" technology uses a frequency that oscillates from the left speaker to the right speaker, slowingbrainwave activity. Computer-generated overtones are said to "nourish the brain". Sounds from nature, human heartbeats,and vocal chants produce a nurturing and calming effect. "Planet Sound Induction" replicates the frequency generated bythe earth's rotation, thus putting the listener in synch with the planet and cosmos."
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